Friends Home Careand Hospice
Giving back

The same heart, at home and seven thousand miles away

As a company, Friends Home Care and Hospice supports local ministries and international missionaries. Caregiving does not clock out, and it has never once stopped at the county line.

Here at home in Des Moines

Serving our neighbors

  • A message from Bert Knapp, founder of Thugging to Loving

    Thugging to Loving

    Boots on the ground, every week

    Every Saturday morning, we are boots on the ground with Thugging to Loving, a Des Moines outreach that goes into the homeless camps and provides for people’s daily needs. Not once a year at the holidays. Every week.

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    A volunteer in a Thugging to Loving shirt serving a hot meal from the back of an SUV
    Thugging to Loving handing out food and supplies at a homeless camp outreach
    Volunteers unloading supplies from an SUV at a homeless camp outreach
  • Central Iowa Shelter & Services

    Two to three times a month, we serve at the downtown homeless shelter with our church group. We have also donated equipment the shelter needed.

    Volunteers serving in the kitchen at Central Iowa Shelter & Services
El Salvador

They do not go to watch. They go to work.

Melissa and her husband, Scott Buchanan, travel to Central America — especially El Salvador — as missionaries through their church, New Hope Assembly of God, working with King’s Castle Ministries.

Melissa and Scott at a Mayan ruin in El Salvador
People waiting to be seen at the free medical clinic
A doctor seeing patients at the medical clinic
The medical clinic in full swing

Many patients have never seen a doctor in their lives. They arrive with diabetes, high blood pressure, and failing hearts, and they leave with medicine and with someone who prayed over them first. The teams carry supplies down for the clinics and the local hospitals, and share the Gospel in the barrios and the cities — until all the kids know Jesus. The goal has always been the same: healing, body and soul.

  • Scott leads construction crews

    He does not go to watch. He goes to work — building alongside the communities they serve.

    A mission team mixing concrete on a construction site in El Salvador
    Workers on scaffolding raising cinder block walls
    A cinder block building going up
  • Melissa has led medical teams

    She has worked the pharmacy at a free clinic staffed by volunteer doctors, where patients walk for miles — sometimes a mile up a mountain — to be seen.

    Melissa sorting medications in the clinic pharmacy
  • A home rebuilt after an earthquake

    Friends Home Care paid to rebuild one very poor family's uninhabitable house. The new one gave them running water and an indoor bathroom for the first time in their lives.

    Melissa and Scott with the family whose home Friends Home Care paid to build
  • Livestock & missionary students

    They provide livestock so families can feed themselves long after the plane goes home, and help fund missionary students onto the field in their third year of schooling.

  • Businesses that keep giving

    Friends Home Care invested in a taco stand business and helped start a coffee shop at King’s Castle Ministries. Small businesses like these keep providing long after the plane goes home.

    Danny’s Takos, the taco stand business Friends Home Care invested in
    The Castillo del Rey coffee shop Friends Home Care helped start at King’s Castle
  • King’s Castle Ministries

    Friends Home Care supports the work of King’s Castle Ministries in El Salvador. You can give in tribute to someone you love.

    Make a tribute giftMelissa and Scott at King’s Castle in El Salvador

    What our support means to their ministry

    Erick and Iveth, missionaries now serving in Côte d’Ivoire
    Heidi, a missionary from Nicaragua serving in Honduras
    Yonatan and Maggie, serving at King’s Castle
  • The church we paid to build

    In 2023, Melissa led a medical team into a barrio in San Sebastian that is primarily voodoo and had no Christian church. Friends Home Care gave the money for an Assembly of God church to be built there, and Melissa and Scott have gone down to help build it.

    The local crew in front of the church walls in San Sebastian, El Salvador
    Workers on scaffolding raising the church walls
    The team standing inside the church walls
    Volunteers working inside the church walls
    A volunteer at the church construction site
Where the money goes

$214,000

Given to ministries since 2023.

Most home care companies take their profit and keep it. Friends Home Care sends it to the mission field.

So when your family hires Friends Home Care, two things happen. Someone you love gets cared for at home, and the help keeps moving — from a homeless camp on the south side to a clinic on a mountainside.

What comes next

The work keeps multiplying

Farther out

Melissa hopes to go beyond El Salvador one day — to Africa, to help drill water wells. She has said she is open to wherever the work leads.

Why this belongs on a home care website

Because it is the same instinct

A caregiver does not stop being a caregiver when the shift ends or the plane lands. If someone is hurting in front of you, you help.

That is what happens in a living room in Ankeny at two in the morning, in a homeless camp on a Saturday morning, and in a clinic at the top of a hill in El Salvador. The families we serve in Iowa are the reason all of it is possible.

Care for your family. Help for someone else’s.

Tell us what your loved one needs, and we will help you find the right care.